I was pushed to their writing with that my then threeyearold daughter Amanta was the timid child.
A bit later, when the journalists interviewers visiting us met already a little matured Amanta, such explanation caused in them bewilderment.
I was asked: How there were Stories about Annie?
And I answered: The shyness and Amanta's shyness was the reason for that.
By then Amanta was ten years old, and it was already definitely not shy ten.
Journalists could not hide an udivleniiya when it dexterously intercepted a microphone at the mother to receive more broadcasting time.. . . . . . Read more -->
Playing with the child, do not try constantly and to concede to him in everything, do not suppress him then he will communicate with strangers more surely.
I will open one secret: play with the child, being at his level that he had not to look constantly at you from below up.
Thus, you will let to the kid know that communicate with him as equals.
Children like to change clothes: the daughter very much likes to try on mother's things, and the son adores investigating a father's portfolio and to put on a father's cap or a peakcap.. . . . . . Read more -->
It was extremely unusual.
But here came to my mind that Kevin somehow felt that he cannot trust himself in that, as for possession of a bow, and decided to do without it.
When I for the first time met Kevin, his speech was the echolalichnoy, thinking confused, he did not understand who and than is engaged.
On musical occupations I had to offer it the elementary situations and intelligent actions to avoid intellectual chaos and an escape from reality.
Little by little music forced Kevin to become identity in a safe environment where he could enjoy freedom.. . . . . . Read more -->
Well, and if the parent does not want to meet further the child, it is necessary to objyasknit to the kid that the reason of such decision is covered not in it.
Informing the child of divorce, explain to him that it it is perfect at anything that he did not make anything that it occurred.
After all sometimes it seems to children that razkvod occurred on their fault.
And surely give to the child as much as possible vnikmaniye during this difficult period that he did not feel thrown and unnecessary.. . . . . . Read more -->
Cases of the children wolf cubs left in the wood from a cat are known horns they managed to escape wonderfully subsequently, and these children though they also lived among shouts of animals and birds, murmur of water, rustle of leaves, remained at all not my.
They do not make any sounds, as never heard the human speech which one only possesses spo sobnost to put in action speech mekhanizm I place on it emphasis to point to existence the special mechanism for language acquisition.
Not possession language, and possession of this mechanism, which on zvolyat to people to create own languages here difference human race.. . . . . . Read more -->
If the child answers: I do not know it is possible to turn all this into game of type Guess.
In such situations of a guess of children will help you to understand of what they think.
If you do not know the reason of concern or alarm of your child, it is possible to use history about Annie which will help to establish it.
Telling story about Annie, insert into it comments and questions, it seems And how you think, than Annie at that time was alarmed?
, or Of that Annie was frightened?. . . . . . Read more -->
Pick up the fairy tale which will be most clear and close to your kid.
Tell it before going to bed.
Fear of darkness one of the most widespread fears at children.
For many children fear of darkness of a sopryakzhen with fear of uncertainty.
Generally children are afraid of monsters which allegedly disappear in the dark.
Some parents in the educational purposes frighten dekty by a gray wolf, a babayaga, militia, the angry uncle, etc.
Very important it never to do!
First the child will start being afraid, and not only darkness.. . . . . . Read more -->